My pending case in the United States, like Senator Natasha Akpoti’s ordeal in Nigeria, reflects the targeted silencing of women who dare to speak up or challenge wrongful maltreatment for saying ‘No’ to immorality.
While Senator Natasha battles political oppression in Nigeria, Ada Africa is facing wrongful scam allegations in the U.S. for refusing sexual advances from a wealthy, supposedly supportive “uncle.”
Let me be clear: I’m not attacking men for making advances. What I am against is when the woman exercises her right to refuse unlawful sex, don’t use your power or position to weaponize her. That is what pushes women like Natasha and me to take further actions. If the Senate President had not tried to punish her, Natasha might not have taken the bold steps she did.
In my case, I was already emotionally prepared to move on, despite the trauma and danger he exposed me to. However, when he began threatening me; accused me of colluding with a U.S. nonprofit (a 501(c)(3) organization) to hack his bank account, claimed I was known for extortion, and threatened to call the police, Homeland Security, and ICE if he ever sees me in the U.S., and other accusations against my person.
I was traumatized for weeks. But after much reflection, I chose to speak out, not just for myself, but for other women. This is bigger than me. I want to prevent other women and ensure the likes of the man won't have the mind to do this to any woman.
I'm already facing the consequences for raising my voice, just like Sen.Natasha. But I’m determined to turn this case into a platform for advocacy for women’s rights, for justice, and for our freedom to say NO.
With courage, I compiled and submitted all available evidence: WhatsApp messages, AliExpress order confirmations, emails, audio recordings, Zelle transfers, and my original and rescheduled flight tickets.
I filed a formal complaint at a U.S. police department. A detective was assigned to my case. After reviewing the evidence, they empathized deeply, called it what it was, a sex crime and assured me that the accused may face real consequences. They moved swiftly into action.
Senator Natasha’s courage continues to draw retaliation in Nigeria. Ada Africa’s pursuit of justice in the U.S. is still ongoing. But it carries with it the hope that justice can prevail, not just for myself, but for women globally who dare to speak up.
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